Magic Sex Compass

Remember the magic compass Captain Jack Sparrow had in The Pirates of The Caribbean movies? The compass did not point to North but instead pointed in the direction of what the possessor wants most. For Captain Sparrow it typically spun out of control.

I can identify with Captain Sparrow and his spinning arrow. In mid life with a new libido and sexual awakening I see all kinds of interesting and intriguing things to try. Suddenly the idea of lite BDSM doesn’t seem so strange and sex toys are just a new way to experience an orgasm.

My arrow started spinning when I picked up an erotica book on a whim one day and couldn’t put stop reading and day dreaming. There within the pages I discovered a middle aged woman, much like myself, that had never ventured into the BDSM territory. As I followed her adventures with a new lover I felt my pulse quicken and my breath shallow. I went to sleep dreaming about Roadie meeting me in dark rooms and taking me in various positions. It was exhilarating but still all in my fantasy and hidden in my mind.

So looking your lover of more than 20+ years in the eye and telling him to take over and role play as a complete stranger was more than a little difficult. Since I couldn’t permanently mount the magic compass to my pelvis I decided to try some visual cue cards. I discovered the Supersex Deck Game by Tracey Cox. The set comes with 52 color-coded cards with ideas for steaming up the sex life. You can play various games with the cards or you can chose one to leave in a strategic place as a promise for a later meet up.

It was a great way to break the ice and get our somewhat stale sex life moving again without anyone feeling inadequate or threatened. Roadie loves to get a card and it gives me the entire day to build up my fantasy and point my arrow in a single direction.

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