Found It: Pearls for the Submissive Wife

Okay ladies diamonds may be a girl’s best friend, but they are rough on the coochie. So have you ever considered pearls for those intimate places? I believe pearls are my best friend because they glide and slide for personal enjoyment or during sex they can slide across him as well. I have found several that just make me squirm, and shimmy and scream. I beat they can do the same for you.

Roadie and I have a game we play. Since I am the submissive in our D/s relationship, I don’t tell him what we will do, but I can make subtle suggestions. If he sees me wearing my pearl necklace it is a clue that the pearls are on and I am ready.

First off the pearl thong! OMG they roll and slide back and forth. The subtle friction of these across the clit and between the labia can make you wet within minutes. I have purchsed the inexpensive pearl thongs, but I highly recommend the more expensive Bracli Pearl Thong. You can get them in double or single strands. The lace is soft and stretches gently while the pearls are heavier and more tantalizing than the plastic ones on the cheapies. I haven’t purchased from the company on the link and I don’t have an affiliation with them, so check around if you are unsure.

For the submissive wife that likes a little handcuff action to go with your pearl thong, check out these Pearl Bead handcuffs. They are fairly inexpensive and not designed for the rough nights, but they will do the trick if you just want to be gently held in place and have your pearls rubbed.

So toss on those pearls and be ready for a sensuous night with your Dom, or lover, or partner or even yourself. They will truly get you in the mood.

Found It! My Submissive Self

Over a month ago I had a major epiphany that basically turned mine and Roadie’s world upside down. It came to me while reading a blog I discovered, “God’s Gift To Him.” In a nutshell I found myself riveted to a woman’s experience coming to the realization that her strong personality was really a cover for her true, but not socially acceptable desires.

Like being struck by lightning it suddenly hit me that I want Roadie to dominate our sex life and I want more than anything to submit to his pleasure. My desire for Dominant/submissive (D/s) is so strong that I started shaking. This was it. This was the true me that finally was breaking free from the years of stereotypes, conservative teachings and social dogmas. I posted this tweet:

“What do you do when you suddenly realize your strong-willed personality is actually
a cover up for a submissive desire?” – tweet, April 23, 2010.

I guess we can call that ground zero day. I sat silent and stunned at my revelation. See I have always been a dominant personality. I rose through the ranks in corporate settings, lead project teams and ran my house with the same determination and power grabbing nature. But secretly I wanted to hand it all over to someone else. Especially when it came to sex. I want Roadie to step in and take charge of me and have his way. I want him to tie me and fuck til I can’t cum anymore. I want him to desire me so much that he can’t keep from getting a hard on every time he sees me. I want nothing more than to surrender to his power and not be able to retreat from his pleasure.

As I stumbled through my mind at this revelation, I started to piece together old memories. I sat down to send Roadie an email with the link and simply told him to read the blog post and then call me. After an excruciating wait of a few hours he called and said, “Okay, I’m with you on this.” That was it.

So we gave it a try but failed miserably on the first attempts. Communication wasn’t good and he seemed reticent to take over. So we backed up and headed for reading material. Roadie is an intellectual while I am a doer, so I have to give him the opportunity to study the D/s lifestyle – honestly I think he was a professor in a previous life.

I downloaded the book, “The Loving Dominant” by John and Libby Warren to Roadie’s Kindle and am waiting for the new results. Like the woman in “God’s Gift” I will document our experiences so other couples can learn and be accepting of what is truly deep down in their nature.

So today I Found Me!

Found It! Sexy Wench

I love watching The Tudors on Showtime and I especially love seeing the hot sex scenes where the corseted gowns gets slowly removed. I know it is a girly romantic thing, but dang those corsets are sexy. Since Roadie is not a fan of corsets I don’t usually get to indulge my girly-girly side but I was inspired.

So I decided to look around for an outfit that I could play a naughty lady in waiting. You know something with bulging cleavage and pulled tight to highlight my curves and the layered skirts would hide my bare ass. It was a thrill just thinking about it. But lo and behold I could only find cheap costumes or over priced authentic renaissance faire clothes.

The authentic clothes were beautiful corsets with detailed tapestry and layered skirts but the price tag of $200 and up was not a practical expense for my role-playing game. So I ventured into creating my own. First I had to find a corset with a zipper so Roadie would get into the fun as well. I found this nicely priced corset at Wicked Temptations for only $50. It is black corset with contrasting leopard print panels. The leopard print isn’t exactly a renaissance style, but I decided it could be worn for other role playing scenerios.

This was a good outer start, but I needed the peasant style shirt to go underneath the corset for a renaissance flare. Next I found this $20 sheer black peasant top also at Wicked Temptations. The light weight material lets the fabric float while moving my arms and letting it fall off the shoulder just heated up the outfit. The front ties allow for a somewhat modest look to begin , but then allows for easy access later. The combination together was great. Since I was on a budget, I used a pair of panties and thigh highs that I already had.

Tah Dah! I was a hot sexy wench for my Roadie and the smile on his face was soon buried in my racked up cleavage. Needless to say the effect was incredible and the $70 price, excluding shipping and handling, made the outfit all the better.