Found It: Pearls for the Submissive Wife

Okay ladies diamonds may be a girl’s best friend, but they are rough on the coochie. So have you ever considered pearls for those intimate places? I believe pearls are my best friend because they glide and slide for personal enjoyment or during sex they can slide across him as well. I have found several that just make me squirm, and shimmy and scream. I beat they can do the same for you.

Roadie and I have a game we play. Since I am the submissive in our D/s relationship, I don’t tell him what we will do, but I can make subtle suggestions. If he sees me wearing my pearl necklace it is a clue that the pearls are on and I am ready.

First off the pearl thong! OMG they roll and slide back and forth. The subtle friction of these across the clit and between the labia can make you wet within minutes. I have purchsed the inexpensive pearl thongs, but I highly recommend the more expensive Bracli Pearl Thong. You can get them in double or single strands. The lace is soft and stretches gently while the pearls are heavier and more tantalizing than the plastic ones on the cheapies. I haven’t purchased from the company on the link and I don’t have an affiliation with them, so check around if you are unsure.

For the submissive wife that likes a little handcuff action to go with your pearl thong, check out these Pearl Bead handcuffs. They are fairly inexpensive and not designed for the rough nights, but they will do the trick if you just want to be gently held in place and have your pearls rubbed.

So toss on those pearls and be ready for a sensuous night with your Dom, or lover, or partner or even yourself. They will truly get you in the mood.

Tips for Valentine Lingerie

This is for the men and partners out there that might want a little sexy piece of lingerie for the big day but haven’t got a clue. Roadie has tried to buy lingerie for me in the past and unfortunately it has not worked too well. Either the sizes were to small – thank you dear I appreciate your support – or the outfits looked bad with my body type. So here are some tips to selecting an outfit for your special midlife woman.

Body type

1) Pears – Someone with a larger butt and thighs is considered a pear shape. Outfits for this body shape should draw your eyes up and away from the problem areas. I would suggest shelf bras or demi bras with details like lace or ribbons, etc. (Stay away from feathers, they are a pain).

Women with large thighs have trouble finding thigh-high hose that don’t create the ugly muffin tops over the sexy lace tops.  Garters or flying gear are a bit hard to make look good. If you are determined, try finding hose that have a size such as large or x-large. For god’s sake stay away from One Size Fits All. The correct label should say One Size Fits All Mannequins and Models.

2) Apples – Someone with an apple shape is larger around the stomach. Again you want your eyes to move away from the problem area, so you have two choices. You can either camouflage the stomach with sexy teddies, camisoles, baby dolls or night gowns that flow open in the back or side. Or you can give the waist some shape with a corset or waist cincher. The idea is to purchase something that pulls the eyes to the breast and legs, or gives shape to the stomach.

Women with large middles can usually accentuate their legs with patterned hose and flying gear. Consider the lingerie in which the garters are built into corsets, teddies or dresses. The garter belts or flying gear don’t always fit the middle well or can roll down over a bigger belly. Again, One Size Fits All, usually means it only works on the perfect figure.

3) Sticks – Someone without curves often focuses on their lack of a curvy butt or lack of breasts. Listen to her when she complains about an outfit not fitting. Most likely she is complaining more about her body. By all means, don’t buy something that accentuates the area she hates most. If she doesn’t like her butt, look at drawing attention to breasts. Lingerie with open nipples or exposed breasts will draw attention away from the back. If she doesn’t like her small breast, consider tops with ruffles or lace. This gives depth and the illusion of fuller bosoms.

Women in the thin, less curvy range can wear those super sexy two piece outfits so you are in luck. Play up her middle and avoid those areas she doesn’t like.

Bras

I have already mentioned a few tips about buying sexy lingerie in my post Top 5 Tips for Sexy Bras so here’s a few more for the men.

• Go ahead and check out the bra size so you can get the right size. If you are picking out something for an every day type of undergarment, try to stick with the store/designer she normally wears. For example if she buys from Victoria’s try to find something with them. There are great differences in designers and as I have learned a 36 in Victoria’s is not the same as a 36 with Fredericks.
• If she wears a C cup or larger she will need underwire support and/or padding. This is especially true if she has nursed a few babies and the girls are sagging. She wants to feel perky and seductive which means Support Those Babies.
• Be aware that some sexy little outfits do not list a cup size. This means there is no support, which is fine in some cases, such as shelf bras or open corsets.

Now that you know our tricks for accentuating our assets and hiding our challenges you should have an easier time of picking something out.

Remember that women use their minds for sexual foreplay. We can get excited thinking about that night of play. So if a woman thinks she looks good, she will feel good and you are half way to that night you have been planning. If you have some other suggestions please leave me a comment. Good luck and enjoy.

Porn Surfing in Private

Have you ever browsed the internet looking for porn and forgotten to clear the browser history before stepping away? If you have kids in the house this can be disastrous.

Well our friends at Google have come to our aid. The new browser application, Google Chrome, allows for private surfing which clears your browser and search histories when you close the browser. This great feature is aptly titled Incognito Mode. Here’s the official explanation from the Chrome help page.

You’ve gone incognito. Pages you view in this window won’t appear in your browser history or search history, and they won’t leave other traces, like cookies, on your computer after you close the incognito window. Any files you download or bookmarks you create will be preserved, however.

They even made it simple to change into Icognito Mode.

• PC and Linux users click the tools menu and select New icognito window or use the keyboard shortcut CTRL+SHIFT+N
• Mac users go to the File menu and select  New Icognito Window or use the keyboard shortcut ⌘+Shift+N

Yeah! Now I can surf and shop without fear of being caught by young prying eyes or curious husbands. Thanks Google!